The Holiday Hostess Guide: Festive Style & Effortless Entertaining

What to Wear When You're Hosting

The best hostess outfit is one you can cook, carry, sit and celebrate in without a second thought. Comfort is the priority, and the good news is that comfortable and polished go hand in hand.

1. Choose sleeves that stay out of the way If you will be cooking, skip floaty styles like bell sleeves or dramatic flutter sleeves. They are lovely for a party you are attending, but near a stovetop or a gravy boat they can quickly become a hazard. Fitted, three-quarter or push-up sleeves keep your hands free and your look neat.
2. Layer with pieces that open at the front Hosting means moving between a warm kitchen and a cooler dining room or drinks area, so you will want a layer you can take on and off easily. Choose a cardigan, blazer or shirt jacket that buttons or wraps at the front rather than over-the-head knitwear. Once your hair and makeup are done, pulling a sweater on and off all evening is the last thing you need.
3. Be thoughtful about white Cream and white look beautiful on the holiday table, but spills happen when you are cooking. If you love wearing white, simply tie on an apron while you are in the kitchen and take it off when guests sit down. If you would rather not think about it, a deeper shade like black, navy, burgundy or forest green hides any splashes.
4. Give yourself room to enjoy the meal You have spent the day cooking, so you deserve to enjoy every bite. Avoid anything too tight or restrictive around the waist. This is where jeans in Sure Stretch® Denim really shine. The fabric is designed to move with you and hold its shape all day, so you look tailored and flattering from prep to pie. Our pull-on jeans take it one step further, with no zip or button at all.
5. Wear heels only if you love them You will be on your feet for hours, so only wear heels if you are truly comfortable standing in them. A pointed flat, a low block heel, a smart loafer or a sleek ankle boot all look polished and let you stay on your feet with ease.

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Festive Hostess Outfit Ideas

Once the practical boxes are ticked, the fun part is adding a festive touch that makes you feel celebratory. These looks are easy to wear and look effortlessly put together.

Hosting Tips for Effortless Entertaining

Effortless entertaining is really about smart planning. The more you can do before guests arrive, the more present you can be once they do.

1. Cook what you know The holidays are not the moment to test a brand new recipe on twelve people, unless you are a confident cook who loves to experiment. Choose dishes you have made before and trust, and you will feel calm and in control on the day.
2. Pick dishes that can be made ahead Build your menu around food that can be prepared early. Salads, sides that reheat beautifully and frozen or chilled desserts can all be ready the day before, which frees up both your oven and your time.
3. Let the oven do the work Roasting and slow cooking are a hostess's best friends. Once everything is in the oven or slow cooker, it largely looks after itself, so you can pour a drink and enjoy your guests instead of standing over the stove.
4. Set the table early Lay the table the night before or first thing in the morning. It is one less job when time is tight, and seeing a beautifully set table ready and waiting is a lovely confidence boost as the day gets busy.
5. Write a simple timeline Work backward from the time you want to sit down to eat and jot down when each dish goes in and comes out. Leave yourself a buffer of at least 30 minutes before guests arrive to get dressed, touch up your makeup and take a breath.

Create a Warm, Welcoming Atmosphere

The easiest way to create a memorable atmosphere is to think about all five senses. When each one is considered, your home feels inviting the moment guests walk through the door.

For sight, soft lighting does wonders. Dim the overheads and use lamps, candles and string lights to create a warm glow. For sound, put together a playlist ahead of time and keep the volume low enough that conversation flows easily. For smell, the cooking will do plenty of the work, but a lightly scented candle in the entryway or bathroom adds a welcoming touch. Just keep strongly scented candles away from the dining table so they do not compete with the food.

For touch, think about cozy throws on the sofa, soft napkins and comfortable seating with a few extra cushions. And for taste, a welcome drink handed to each guest as they arrive sets a celebratory tone right away.

The Little Details That Make Guests Feel at Home

The hostesses everyone remembers are the ones who think of the small things before anyone has to ask. These easy details make a big difference.

Thanksgiving Hostess Gift Ideas for When You're the Guest

If someone else is hosting this year and you are heading over for dinner this weekend, a thoughtful hostess gift is a lovely way to say thank you. The best Thanksgiving hostess gifts are ones she can enjoy later, on her own time, rather than something that needs attention in the middle of a busy evening.

1. Flowers that are ready to go Fresh flowers are a classic for a reason, but a bouquet that needs trimming and a vase adds a job to her list. Bring an arrangement already in a vase or a small potted plant like an amaryllis or a mini orchid, so she can simply set it down and enjoy it.
2. Something for the morning after One of the most thoughtful hostess gifts for the holidays is breakfast for the next day. A bag of good coffee, a loaf of fresh bread with a jar of jam or a box of pastries tells her you know she will be tired and has earned a slow morning.
3. A bottle to save for later A bottle of wine, champagne or a festive sparkling cider makes a gracious Thanksgiving hosting gift. Add a little tag that says "for you to enjoy later" so she does not feel she has to open it that evening.
4. Pretty things for the home A scented candle in a seasonal fragrance, a set of linen cocktail napkins, a beautiful olive oil or a small serving dish are all elegant choices. They feel personal without being too much, and they will remind her of the evening every time she uses them.
5. A little something just for her The host often gets everything for the home and nothing for herself. A luxurious hand cream, a silk scrunchie, a cozy pair of socks or a gift card for her favorite brand is a sweet way to say she deserves to be pampered too.

Whatever you choose, add a handwritten note. A few warm words of thanks are often the part she remembers most.

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